A week ago, my husband told me that he wanted to get a divorce. I was just shocked and didn't even know what to do. Literally two days later, he sent me a link to a divorce service https://onlinedivorcer.com/online-divorce-iowa. A day later, he asked if I downloaded the papers and if I started filling them out. But I haven't done anything yet, I still can't stomach this shocking news. And he is in such a hurry and hurries me. What should I do?